wounding others (Joubert), 419; Polite- ness is to human nature what warmth is to wax (Schopenhauer), 445. See, also, Manners.
Covetousness: Thou shalt not covet, &c. (Decalogue), 43; Buddhistic command against, 79; The superior man guards against covetousness (Confucius), 102; Form no covetous desire, that the bene- fit of the world may not be tasteless (Spirit of Wisdom), 164; Covetousness cracks the sinews of faith, &c. (Browne), 300; To desire what belongs to another is misprision of robbery (Halifax), 316; Covet no man's property in any sort (Penn), 339.
Cowley, Abraham. Translation from Mar- tial, 144.
should not too much prize life which we cannot keep, nor fear death which we cannot shun (Essex-Bacon), 273; Happy is he... whose soul is still prepared for death (Wotton), 282; Live like a neigh- bor unto death (Browne), 303. See, also, Life.
Debt Salt and lead not heavier than debt (Ahikar), 105; If you owe anything, pay it willingly (Medieval precept), 178; He that oweth much and hath nought, may be sorry, &c. (Rhodes), 208; Have the courage to discharge a debt while you have money (Stanislaus), 356; Never spend your money before you have it (Jefferson), 411. See, also, Borrowing, Honesty, Expenditure.
Decalogue: The Buddhistic, 78, 79; The Hindu Tenfold summary of duty, 70; The Mosaic, 4, 41.
Decalogue of canons for practical life (Jef- ferson), 411.
Deceit. See Falsehood, Hypocrisy.
Deeds. See Doing.
Deference. See Filial Duty, Elders, Au-
thority, Honor.
Deliberation. See Prudence.
Dependents, treatment of (Ptah-hotep),
Curiosity I never am curious to pry in the privacies of other men (Erasmus), 212; Be not curious to know the affairs of others (Washington), 404. Cursing Blessings give for curses (Manu), Designing. See Malice.
Dancing: Abstain from (Buddhist com- mandments), 78.
Death: The day of death better than the day of birth.... There is no work... in the grave (Ecclesiastes), 59, 61; Vir- tue alone stays by [one] at the tomb.
Long not for death, nor hanker after life (Manu), 68, 70; Look to the end of life (Solon), 76; Death does not see him who looks down on the world (Dhammapada), 83; Look upon death or upon a comedy with the same expression (Seneca), 141; Death is not terrible; the terror consists in Our notion of death (Epictetus), 151; No man loses any other life than that which he now lives. . . . The present is the same to all. It is one of the acts of life, this by which we die (Marcus Aure- lius), 158, 160; To live in fear of death may possibly shorten life, but never make it longer (Erasmus), 214; We
Descartes, René, the provisional rules of, 297.
Desirable. See Good.
Desire Desire is not extinguished by en- joyment (Manu), 67; Right desire in the heart, the greatest blessing (Buddha), 79; If you desire things not in our own power you must be disappointed (Epic- tetus), 150; Have something left to wish for (Gracian), 287; Children and fools want everything (Halifax), 318. Detraction. See Slander. Dhammapada, selections from the, 82. Diligence. See Industry. Disappointment: There can be no entire disappointment to a wise man (Halifax), 315. See, also, Prosperity. Discord. See Contention. Discrimination. - Choice: To choose well is the most important thing in life (Gra- cian), 286.
Dishonesty. See Honesty. Disputation. See Contention. Dissension. See Contention. Dissimulation. See Falsehood, Hypocrisy.
Diversions. See Pleasure. Divorce. See Marriage. Dogmatism: The prudent man affirms not lightly what is doubtful (Thomas à Kempis), 203. Doing. Deeds. Achievement.-Per- formance: Divinity does not principally esteem the tongue, but the deeds. Perform great things, promising nothing great (Pythagoras), 90, 93; We should not judge a man's merit by his good qualities, but by the use he can make of them (La Rochefoucauld), 312; The pride of compassing may more than com- pare with the pleasure of enjoying (Hali- fax), 316; A man, like a watch, is to be valued for his goings (Penn), 328, It is not enough to know, we must apply; not enough to will, we must do (Goethe), 416; Living requires little life; doing requires much (Joubert), 418; It is by doing right that we arrive at just principles (Swetchine), 437; A man wants to use his strength, to see, if he can, what effect it will produce (Scho- penhauer), 444; Conviction, were it never so excellent, is worthless till it convert itself into conduct. . . . Produce! pro- duce! were it but the pitifullest infinites- imal fraction of a product, produce it (Carlyle), 449, 450. See, also, Firmness. Drama. See Stage. Dress. -
Personal adornment: One should not wear garlands or use perfumes (Buddha), 78; Be not too studied in dress; it is the mark of a little mind (Mexican precept), 223; Rags and bravery will soon wear out of fashion; but money in thy purse will ever be in fashion (Raleigh), 257; Let attire be comely, not too costly (Lyly), 262; The apparel oft proclaims the man (Shakespeare), 281; In apparel, avoid singularity, profuse- ness, and gaudiness (Quarles), 290; Wear your clothes neat, &c. (Osborne), 294; Nothing is truly fine but what is fit (Hali- fax), 318; Choose thy clothes by thine own eyes (Penn), 326, 331; Do not con- ceive that fine clothes make fine men (Washington), 399, 401, 402, 403. Drunkenness. See Temperance. Duplicity. See Sincerity. Duty: Let no one forget his own duty for the sake of another's (Dhammapada), 83; Let it make no difference to thee
whether cold or warm, if thou art doing thy duty (Marcus Aurelius), 160; Re- solved to do whatever I think to be my duty (Edwards), 366, 373; What is your duty? To fulfil the claims of the day.
Art thou little, do that little well.
Like the star. . . let each man wheel with steady sway round the task that rules the day, and do his best (Goethe), 414, 417; Men must either be the slaves of duty or of force (Joubert), 419; Let us exceed our appointed duties.
There are not good things enough in life to indemnify us for the neglect of aduty (Swetchine), 437, 438; Do the duty which lies nearest thee (Carlyle), 449; See, also, Fidelity, Filial duty, Elders, Political duty, Religious injunctions.
Early rising. See Sleep. Earnestness. Seriousness. Gravity. - Thoughtlessness. Frivolity: Those who are in earnest do not die (Dham- mapada), 82; Do every act of thy life as if it were the last (Marcus Aurelius), 158.
Ecclesiastes, selections from, 7, 58. Ecclesiasticus, selections from, 113. Economy. See Expenditure.
Economy of Human Life, selections from The, 362. Education. Teaching. -Learning: Be not arrogant because of learning (Ptah- hotep) 33; Of making many books there is no end, and much study is a weariness (Ecclesiastes), 63; Much insight and ed- ucation the greatest blessing (Buddha), 79; Make much of the colleges and sem- inaries. Instruct sons and younger brothers (Confucius), 101; Hast thou children? instruct them (Ecclesiasti- cus), 118; Men exist for one another; teach them then, or bear with them (Marcus Aurelius), 161; Men learn when they teach (Rhodes), 208; Study the greatest pleasure of life. Make it a di- version, not a toil (Erasmus), 215; In study seek two things: first to conceive or understand; second to lay up or re- member (Essex-Bacon), 277; To advise the ignorant is one of the duties that fall in our way almost daily (Addison), 353; The main business of education should be to direct the will (Joubert), 419. See, also, Books, Knowledge, Teachableness, Edwards, Jonathan, the resolutions of, 366.
Effrontery. Impudence. Imperti- nence: Impudence is no virtue, yet able to beggar them all (Osborne), 295. Eighteenth century, moral characteristics of, 27-29.
Elders, conduct towards: Treat not with disrespect thy father, mother, teacher, elder brother (Manu), 65; Honor and sa- lute old men. . . . Be careful not to mock the old (Mexican precept), 222; Prefer elders and strangers (Penn), 332. Emerson, Ralph Waldo: Passages from "The Conduct of Life," 456. Enchiridion of Epictetus, 15, 16, 149. Enchiridion of Quarles, 289. Enjoyment. See Pleasure.
Enmity: If thine enemy be hungry, &c. (Proverbs), 56; Love your enemy (Je- sus), 132; In friendships and enmities let your confidence and your hostilities have bounds (Chesterfield), 361. Envy Envy is the rottenness of the bones (Proverbs), 54; Provoke not envy (Py- thagoras), 89; Envy and wrath shorten the life (Ecclesiasticus), 124; Bear no envy, that life may not be tasteless (Spirit of Wisdom), 164; Envy always is a concomitant of a pompous felicity (Erasmus), 211; Be not jealous of what the good God granteth to others (Mexican precept), 227; The greatest harm you can do unto the envious is to do well (Lyly), 262; Happy is he who en- vies none (Wotton), 282; Let age, not envy, draw wrinkles on thy cheeks (Browne), 302; Envy is a passion we never dare to avow.... Envy is more irreconcilable than hatred (La Roche- foucauld), 310, 311; Malice may be sometimes out of breath, envy never (Halifax), 315; Virtue is not secure against envy. . . . Envy none (Penn), 329, 335; Softening the envious is an em- ployment suited to a reasonable nature (Addison), 353; We should treat envy as the enemy of our happiness (Scho- penhauer), 443.
Epictetus, selections from the precepts of, 15, 16, 149.
Epicurean morality, 13-15.
Equanimity Men are disturbed, not by things, but by the principles and notions which they form concerning things (Epictetus), 150; To be at peace with God is the fountain of true tranquillity (Erasmus), 214; Shun the dissipation
which sudden fancies involve (Fénelon), 343; The tranquillity of the life of the happy man described (Cowper), 394; Be not disturbed at trifles or accidents (Franklin), 378; Take things always by their smooth handle (Jefferson), 411; Who through the heat of conflict keeps the law in calmness made (Wordsworth), 430. See, also, Self-control, Anxiety, An- ger, Patience.
Equity. See Justice, Honesty. Erasmus. "The Old Men's Dialogue," from the "Colloquies," 211.
Essex, Earl of, Letter of advice to the Earl of Rutland, 269.
Euphues and his Ephœbus, 260.
Evil. See Righteousness, Goodness, Vir- Lue.
Evil-designing. See Malice. Evil-speaking. See Slander. Example: Thou mayest take examples of good conduct from a foe. . . . Something from all (Manu), 65; Example of good life more stirreth rude men than true preaching (Wyclif), 196; Edify thy neighbor by word and deed (Thomas à Kempis), 203; Set not bad examples (Mexican precept), 222; Make your ex- amples of wise and honest men (Wyatt), 233; The life of Cæsar has no greater example for us than our own (Montaigne), 249; A man should not vainly endeavor to frame himself on other men's models (Bacon), 267; All men that live are drawn either by book or example (Essex- Bacon), 276; Example prevails more than precept (Osborne), 295; Nothing is so contagious as example (La Rochefou- cauld), 311; Resolution to imitate what seems commendable in others (Edwards), 372; Wherein you reprove another be unblamable yourself (Washington), 403; Personal experience of the effect of a contemplation of good examples in char- acter (Jefferson), 406, 407; We reform others unconsciously when we walk up- rightly (Swetchine), 438.
Three things corrupt the world: pride, superfluity, and indolence (Welsh Triad), 172; Be courteous and spend freely, and you will be more loved (Medieval pre- cept), 179; Waste not thy goods in great feasts (Wyclif), 196; Beware thou spend not above three or four parts of thy re- venue (Burleigh), 240; Never spend any- thing before thou have it (Raleigh), 256; Never buy but with ready money (Os- borne), 294; The art of laying out money wisely is not attained without thought (Halifax), 318; Frugality is good, if lib- erality be joined. That is lost that is misused.... Cast up your income and live on half. Frugality is the better way to be rich, for it has less toil and temptation (Penn), 326, 331, 340; Have courage to do without what you do not need ; ... to set down every penny you spend (Stanislaus), 357; The best error is on the parsimonious side. . . . Fru- gality is the sure guardian of our virtues (Chesterfield), 363; Make no expense but to do good to others or yourself (Frank- lin), 378, 379, 384; I cannot enjoin too strongly a due observance of economy (Washington), 401; Never buy what you do not want because it is cheap (Jeffer- son), 411; Be saving, but not at the cost of liberality (Joubert), 418. See, also, Avarice, Thrift, Debt.
Extortion: Extortion maketh a wise man foolish (Ecclesiastes), 60. Extravagance.
Use not to make any manner of lie. . . . A thief better than a man ac- customed to lie (Ecclesiasticus), 115, 117, 122; If thou findest anything better than truth, &c., turn to it. . . . With all thy soul do justice and say the truth (Marcus Aurelius), 158, 159, 161; I have found no remedy for weakness of heart like the pursuit of truth and justice (Maimonides), 167; Stir all to love truth (Wyclif), 195; Proclaim the truth (Thomas à Kempis), 203; He that lieth till no man believe him, let him go where no man knoweth him (Rhodes), 208, 209; Use not to lie; . . . speak not every truth; . . . a harmless lie is better than a hurtful truth (Ascham), 219, 220; Above all things, tell no untruth (Sid- ney), 247; Not telling all the truth is hiding it (Halifax), 315, 316; Never to speak anything but the pure and simple verity (Edwards), 369; Be true (Jeffer- son), 410; It is much easier to recognize error than to find truth (Goethe), 415; May prudence, fortitude, and truth erect your brow (Burns), 423. See, also, Sin- cerity, Promises, Hypocrisy. Fame. Glory: The vulgar is a depraved judge of beautiful deeds (Pythagoras), 93; There is a shame which is glory. . . . Envy not the glory of a sinner (Ecclesiasticus), 115, 119 Notoriety and popular fame not to be reckoned amongst goods (Cicero), 128; Be a despiser of vain glory (Rhodes), 208; Happy is he . . . untied unto the worldly care of public fame (Wotton), 282; Be substantially great in thyself, and more than thou appearest (Browne), 302; Look upon fame as the talk of neighbors at the street door (Richter), 427. See, also, Honors, worldly; Repu- tation.
Familiarity: Be familiar to few, equal to all (Rhodes), 207; Be thou familiar, but by no means vulgar (Shakespeare), 281. Fanshawe, Sir R. Translation from Mar- tial, 144.
Fashion Have courage to prefer propriety to fashion (Stanislaus), 358. See, also, Dress.
Father, duty towards. See Filial duty. Fault-finding. See Complaining, Censure. Fawning. See Flattery. Fear. See Courage.
Fellowship. See Neighbors.
Fénelon. Rules for a Christian life, 343. Fickleness. See Firmness.
Fidelity. Treachery: The perversity of the treacherous shall destroy them (Pro- verbs), 52; There is no inheritance like faithfulness (Maimonides), 168; Be faith- ful in little things (Thomas à Kempis), 203; Who comprehends his trust, and to the same keeps faithful (Wordsworth), 430.
Filial duty (Ptah-hotep), 39, 40; Honor thy father and thy mother (Decalogue), 42; Fear every man his mother and his father (Leviticus), 44; Hear the instruc- tion of thy father, forsake not the law of thy mother (Proverbs), 48; By deep de- votion seek thy debt to pay. . . . Treat not with disrespect (Manu), 65; The man of sin is he confess'd who . . . his hoary parent stings with taunting rage (Hesiod), 73, 74; To support father and mother, the greatest blessing (Buddha), 80; With lowly duty to thy parents bow (Pythag- oras), 86; Esteem most highly filial piety (Confucius), 100; Honor thy father and mother. . . . Help thy father in his age (Ecclesiasticus), 114, 118; To thy father and mother show honor and re- spect (St. Louis), 176; Love your lady and mother, obey her commandments, believe her counsels (Suffolk), 200; Re- vere, love and serve father and mother (Mexican precept), 222; The greatest comfort you can bestow on parents is to live well and learn well (Lyly), 262; If thou wouldst be obeyed as a father, be obedient as a son (Penn), 328; Honor and obey your natural parents, altho' they be poor (Washington), 404; Rever- ence and cherish your parents (Jeffer- son), 410.
Firmness.-Steadfastness.-Resolution. -- Will. Fickleness: Not lightly from thy resolution swerve (Pythagoras), 87; Abide by the rules of life you have deliberately proposed to yourself (Epictetus), 153; The prudent man changes not unreason- ably (Thomas à Kempis), 203; Be con- stant, but not obstinate (Rhodes), 207; Take some one path and march in a straight line (Descartes), 297; We have more power than will (La Rochefou- cauld), 310; Have the courage to adhere to a resolution
and to abandon it upon conviction. Have courage to face a difficulty (Stanislaus), 357; If
thou believest a thing impossible, thy despondency shall make it so (Chester- field), 363; Resolve to perform what you ought; perform without fail what you resolve (Franklin), 377. See, also, Stub- bornness, Persuasion, Refusing, Doing. Fitness: It is not enough that a thing be right, if it be not fit (Penn), 327. Flattery: Have nothing to do with a treach- erous flatterer (Mediaval precept), 179; Flatterers are the worst kind of traitors (Raleigh), 255; Love rather right words than flattering. ... Let it be as painful to be praised of lewd and inhonest per- sons as if praised for lewd and inhonest deeds.... Allure not the love of any man by flattery (Rhodes), 206, 207; Keep some great man thy friend (Bur- leigh), 243; Happy is he ... whose state can neither flatterers feed, nor &c. (Wotton), 283; Use the commentary of a severe friend, rather than the glosse of a sweetlipt flatterer (Quarles), 290; If we did not flatter ourselves, flattery of others would be harmless. . . . Flattery is a false coin, &c. (La Rochefoucauld), 311; Be no flatterer (Washington), 402. See, also, Praise.
Fools: As the crackling of thorns under a pot is the laughter of the fool (Ecclesias- tes), 60; Shame shall be the promotion of fools. . . . The companion of fools shall smart (Proverbs), 50, 53; There is no companionship with a fool. fool becomes full of evil, even if he gathers it little by little (Dhammapada), 82, 83; Consult not with a fool (Eccle- siasticus), 119; The three laughs of a fool at the good, at the bad, and at he knows not what (Welsh Triad), 172; Never had a fool thorough enjoyment (Chesterfield), 363.
Forbearance: See Magnanimity, Patience,
Forestalling: He that withholdeth corn, the people shall curse him (Proverbs), 53.
Forethought. See Prudence.
Forgetfulness: Be able to forget (Gracian), 287.
Forgiveness. Pardon Forgive . . . so shall thy sins be forgiven (Ecclesiasticus), 122; If ye forgive men, your heavenly Father will forgive you (Jesus), 133; Grant pardon before it is asked (Seneca),
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